I have some friends who always knew where they were going to honeymoon. They’d dreamed about Greece/Tahiti/Italy for so long that when the time came to actually start planning their trips, they wasted no time at all booking flights and reserving hotels.
I, on the other hand, was not one of those people. My husband and I had NO IDEA where we wanted to honeymoon, so long as:
- it was warm,
- it had great beaches,
- it was far away, and
- neither of us had been there before.
In the months leading up to our wedding, we bought Lonely Planet books for Mauritius, Belize, and Venezuela. I emailed friends about the Maldives, Bali, and the Philippines. I even remember having a random dream about honeymooning in Malta, of all places. In other words, I was ALL over the map, and it really stressed me out.
Eventually one of my husband’s coworkers suggested that we at least talk to her travel agent, and I’m really glad we did. She was a huge fan of Bali herself, and she suggested we combine that with Vietnam, a country that I wouldn’t have even considered for my honeymoon. After we decided WHERE we were going, I could finally start feeling excited about it.
If you are having difficult deciding where to go on your honeymoon, here’s some advice:
- Make a list of your travel priorities. What’s (honestly) most important to you about your honeymoon? (e.g. warm weather, sticking to a budget, having lots of activities to choose from, good food, etc.)
- Take that list of priorities, and then organize it by how important each item is to you. (Again, be honest!)
- Consider the time of year you want to honeymoon, and eliminate destinations that are not ideal. (Or if you are considering visiting a destination during low season, make sure to read this post.)
- Once you’ve narrowed it down, feel free to email me your destination shortlist, and I’ll give you my opinion :) Don’t forget to mention your travel priorities though, so I know what sort of trip you are looking for.
- If you get stuck between two destinations, considering combining them into your ultimate multi-moon.
However, the MOST important advice I have is to just keep in mind that you’re going to be happy wherever you decide to go. Sure, there are lots of great destinations out there, but there’s no rule that your honeymoon HAS to be the absolutely most amaaaaaaaaaaaazing trip you ever go on, I promise! Don’t put too much pressure on yourselves just because this trip is the “all-important honeymoon.” A honeymoon will be the most sentimental/expensive/exotic trip you ever go on only if you choose to make it that way. Believe it or not, you can still plan plenty of other great non-honeymoon trips in the future ; )
One of the reasons why I chose to write this post this week is because I’ve been corresponding with someone in the UK about where she should go on her honeymoon. The other reason is that I’m still hemming and hawing over where to plan our own big trip of 2014 now that Brazil is out of the cards. Even I still need to remind myself (all the time) that I shouldn’t really stress about where we plan our trips. Whether we go to Ecuador, Malaysia, or somewhere that hasn’t even crossed my mind yet, it’s going to be great.